{"id":20779,"date":"2013-06-25T11:16:06","date_gmt":"2013-06-25T10:16:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eamel.net\/blog\/for-women-who-are-difficult-to-love"},"modified":"2022-06-25T09:09:04","modified_gmt":"2022-06-25T07:09:04","slug":"for-women-who-are-difficult-to-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.eamel.net\/blog\/2013\/06\/25\/for-women-who-are-difficult-to-love\/","title":{"rendered":"For women who are difficult to love"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"background-color: #708090;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left; padding-left: 140px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 24px;\"><span class=\"penci-dropcap-box\">F<\/span><em><span style=\"font-family: 'Marck Script'; font-size: 22pt; color: #ffffff;\">or women who are difficult to love<\/span><\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>you are a horse running alone<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>and he tries to tame you<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>compares you to an impossible highway<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>to a burning house<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>says you are blinding him<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>that he could never leave you<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>forget you<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>want anything but you<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>you dizzy him, you are unbearable<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>every woman before or after you<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>is doused in your name<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>you fill his mouth<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>his teeth ache with memory of taste<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>his body just a long shadow seeking yours<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>but you are always too intense<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>frightening in the way you want him<br \/>\n<\/em><em>unashamed and sacrificial<br \/>\n<\/em><em>he tells you that no man can live up<\/em><br \/>\n<em>to the one who<\/em><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-size: 22pt; font-family: 'Marck Script'; color: #ffffff;\"><em>lives in your head<br \/>\n<\/em><em>and you tried to change didn't you?<br \/>\n<\/em><em>closed your mouth more<br \/>\n<\/em><em>tried to be softer<br \/>\n<\/em><em>prettier<br \/>\n<\/em><em>less volatile, less awake<br \/>\n<\/em><em>but even when sleeping you could feel<br \/>\n<\/em><em>him travelling away from you in his dreams<br \/>\n<\/em><em>so what did you want to do love<br \/>\n<\/em><em>split his head open?<br \/>\n<\/em><em>you can't make homes out of human beings<br \/>\n<\/em><em>someone should have already told you that<br \/>\n<\/em><em>and if he wants to leave<br \/>\n<\/em><em>then let him leave<br \/>\n<\/em><em>you are terrifying<br \/>\n<\/em><em>and strange and beautiful<br \/>\n<\/em><em>something not everyone knows how to love.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 80px; text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-family: Neucha; color: #ffffff;\"><em>Source<strong>: <\/strong><\/em><strong><em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a class=\"hoverZoomLink\" style=\"color: #ffffff; text-decoration: underline;\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/36289832#\" target=\"_blank\">Warsan Shire<\/a><\/span><\/em>&nbsp;<\/strong>@ <em>Vimeo<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<div style=\"background-color: #708090;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><center><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/36289832\" width=\"1280\" height=\"704\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em><a class=\"hoverZoomLink\" style=\"color: #ffffff; text-decoration: underline;\" href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/36289832\">warsan shire &#8211; for women who are difficult to love<\/a><\/em> <\/span>from <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em><a style=\"color: #ffffff; text-decoration: underline;\" href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/bri\">brianna olson<\/a><\/em><\/span> on <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><em><a style=\"color: #ffffff; text-decoration: underline;\" href=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\">Vimeo<\/a><\/em><\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/center><center><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><\/center><center><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; color: #ffffff;\"><strong>words : @warsan_shire<\/strong>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a style=\"color: #ffffff;\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" href=\"http:\/\/warsanshire.tumblr.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">warsanshire.tumblr.com\/<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<strong>image : @briolson |<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><a style=\"color: #ffffff;\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" href=\"http:\/\/bri.lovevolution.org\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">bri.lovevolution.org\/<\/span> <\/a><\/span><\/center><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"hzImg\" style=\"background: none; line-height: 0px; overflow: hidden; padding: 5px; position: absolute; z-index: 2147483647; visibility: visible; opacity: 1; 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